True Love

Today I sit here contemplating the impact we all have on each other’s lives and how we are too darn busy to even notice it. We are very shallow in how we go through life never really taking the time to STOP, FEEL, TAKE IT ALL IN and JUST BE!

Today my heart is heavy and all I long to do is STOP, REFLECT, and provide meaning to the experiences that brought me to the place of really caring for the people I care about.

What is it?

What is it about people that really impacts us?

The stuff that helps them get deeper and deeper into the fibers of our being.

Is it what they do or is it what we need from them?

Is it a little of both?

When we absorb life around us daily there is a lot that we take for granted, but what are the things we pay attention to?

The stuff that feels good.

The stuff that hurts.

The stuff that makes us mad.

The stuff that confuses us.

The stuff that’s new to us.

We are such complex creatures. We take the world around us for granted until it grabs our attention. Why must we let the world grab our attention? Why are we not more inquisitive to learn? Maybe we are, but over time we forget our own nature. We get so bogged down by responsibilities we stop exploring and being creative. We wait until things literally smack us in the face before we pay attention to them.

A kind word, a caring act, a gentle touch, a sideways smile, an encouraging nudge, someone who sees our abilities even when we do not, all signify…”I See You”, “You Matter”, “I Am Here For You” and “I Love You”.

This is the type of feeling that penetrates to the deepest fibers of our being, LOVE the way it was intended.

When we are connecting with one another in this manner we feel alive, purposeful…we feel we matter. The act of seeing another in this manner fulfills us to the deepest level.

There are certain people that touch our lives in these ways and we can’t help but to notice them. They become role models, our heroes. The qualities these individuals exude in interactions with us help inspire similar behaviors and actions in us. This is actually the type of Legacy we were born to create. The one that impacts this world multifold for generations to come in an empowering way as we all lead each other home. This is the world I want my children and eventual grandchildren to be a part of and grow up in.

There is so much hurt in this world that it takes us far from this pure way of being. We are so depleted of this basic need, that we literally fight each other to obtain it. The worst part of it is that we long for it in the convoluted way that we have learned love and care to exist in this world. A way that brings more hurt and division.

Little by little the “TRANSFORMED WARRIORS” of this world will continue to leave their mark. More and more of the hurting will be impacted by TRUE, PURE, VULNERABLE, LOVE. The kind that seeks to lift others before themselves. The one that is concerned for another’s well-being. The kind that contemplates how another is experiencing their struggle. Every Day I want to be the person that takes this into account.

Every day it’s a struggle against my own humanity to discipline myself in a manner that I stay in my heart more than I am out of my heart. When I struggle the most, it is usually because I have lost connection with the very fibers of my being and I am operating outside myself.

What do you do on a daily basis to connect with the truest most vulnerable parts of YOU?

Why is it so scary?

HURT! HURT is why! We have much hurt keeping us from going in. Going in means connection with the most vulnerable parts of us…this is where pain exists. If we do not learn how to navigate pain, we will never be able to tap into the beauty of ourselves. The ones we were born to be. The one that can impact this world like no other. There is no one in this world like you and no one in this world can leave the mark you will leave. No one else has been impacted by your life the way you have been, and no one sees things in the same way you do. You are unique! The minute you try to be like someone else, you are way off track. You were not meant to be like them nor them like you.

So, tell me…

Are you ready to be brave? Are you ready to lean in? Are you ready to be a part of the Transformed Warriors of this world?

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